1 glass of Red wine & I texted…

I have pretty much finished this stupid 30 Day No Contact Rule & like I said in 1 of my previous posts it doesn’t work if you see the person on a weekly basis.

Anyhow last night I was chilling at home with a tv show & I had a glass of red wine as I treat (usually I don’t drink during the week, only on weekends) & then I texted him.

I said hi & waited… He responded with a hi too & asked what I wanted. I said nothing, I just drunk texted (silly drunk honesty). I asked if everything was ok with him, he said that it was and I said that’s good with a stupid smiley face emoji. I’m a big smiley person in real life, so that’s my excuse.

I was just drunk testing the waters. I don’t intend to text for a while again & then do the same thing in a month or so, just to test the waters again.

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Monday Thoughts

I’ve got absolutely N O T H I N G to say about this weekend when it comes to this guy. We avoid each other and that’s it.

I did however recently realize that he is unique in a sense that he has this fun quality about him that most guys I’ve been meeting lack. I’m just bored of the regular guys that are predictable, have same lines, same approach, and that are SO into me, it’s such a turn off, all of it. I do have to start talking to new guys again, but I just haven’t met anyone that’s interesting enough yet.

Anyways I’m looking forward to the weekend again and hope to meet some new guys. I will actually try and make an effort this weekend, because this last weekend I just went out to enjoy myself and relax and party. Of course guys approached me, but I wasn’t interested in any of them. I did end up having an amazing weekend. I tried a new workout too, Zumba and I think I will join the weekly Saturday morning class and keep up with it while it’s available.

My life right now is pretty awesome, every aspect of it. Love life is quiet, but I wouln’t want it any other way at the moment. If i see something I like, I grab it, so not really concerned about that. Looking forward to whatever comes next. Happy Week to you ALL! XOXO

 

21/30

It’s been 3 weeks since I started the No Contact Rule & I will tell you that this DOES NOT WORK if you spend the weekends with this person.

So I’m gonna keep at it, but I don’t expect anything from it. I’m going to start the proper 30 day no contact when I’m sure I won’t see this person for a month which will be October, well apart from the Halloween party.

Meanwhile just gonna enjoy life & make the best of it! Looking forward to retail therapy after work and of course the weekend. Cheers!

 

In Love with Saturdays

This past Saturday was a blast! I had 1 hell of a time at the beach bar party with my friends. Saturdays have become the highlight of my week as Sunday Funday starts pretty late & I can’t stay out late as I wake up early for work Monday morning.

So I narrowed it down to just 1 guy & I don’t want to do anything about it because I like him. The other 1 I just see as a friend. And then this new guy has been driving me crazy & making me angry coz he just shows up there without even texting me… I think he thought we were in a relationship so I had to text him saying I love my single life way too much & don’t wanna change that. He played it cool & said he just wants to go out on dates and have fun, and I said I already have someone, so I think he will leave me alone now. – Relief!

So now I’m very single and nothing has been happening apart from a couple of shared kisses with 2 guys I’m absolutely not interested in. One of them was the above new guy & the other was some new German guy I met. Luckily he’s out of the country for 2 weeks so I won’t see him. There was another accent guy, we just exchanged numbers, absolutely nothing happened, and he has been texting me a lot too.

Not to self: Stop telling guys they have cool accents, coz they take it very wrong. They think you are instantly in love with them. No more of that!

I’m very much looking forward to this upcoming weekend and my full day at the beach this Saturday.

I have been working out every day, completed 1 month & I gotta say I’m exhausted because I’m not getting enough sleep. I gotta work on fixing that. Would like 8 hours every night if possible. I’ve been very busy lately too which makes the time fly by fast.

The irony is during winter I was complaining to my friends of lack of love life and now it’s crazy, I feel overwhelmed and want to be left alone most of the time. But 1 of my close friends said just enjoy it! So I will make the best of it. Relax and enjoy – Looking forward to the weekend XOXO

 

 

 

What Now?

Oh man, what a weekend! I don’t know where to start so I will just start from the beginning.

Friday: I was supposed to meet my new guy at the beach club Friday night but he totally stood me up. I didn’t really care though.We texted, and at some point I thought well since he didn’t show up I won’t text him anymore for the night, and when he said text me when you wake up, I replied I won’t… then he texted back something like is everything ok, how are you and I didn’t reply right away, and then later told him I met new friends. He instantly texted back: New boyfriend? 😦 I explained that a guy stepped on my foot  & then bought me a drink, that’s all… I still had a good time at the beach club & my friends came anyways. I also met another new  guy who had the cutest accent, exchanged numbers.

Saturday: Me & old guy (the guy) walk into the beach bar at the same time around noon, but from different sides of the entrance so we are facing each other when we walk in, funny… My new guy came over after an hour or so or 2 and he kissed me on the cheek as if he was greeting a friend, hmmm, weird… We talked a bit & my old guy must have been looking at us because my new guy was looking at the old guy too, weird…

He buys me a drink, we chat a bit and he says he has to go run errands for his sister’s pool party that evening which he invited me to… The funny thing is he tells me come walk me out, and doesn’t give me a kiss, says “not here” (RED FLAG) and we have a quick kiss on the lips goodbye.

Old guy is still looking well yummy & it’s hard not to find someone you slept with already attractive again when you are spending 8 hours together at the beach in your swimwear. Saturday party at the beach club was amazing, loved every minute of it! My girlfriends were there too.

Sunday Funday: We were at our fave place all day long again. My new guy texted me Where are you at some point & since I’m having a good time, I don’t open the message or respond right away… I reply 3 hours later saying AT THE BEACH CLUB, IT’S CRAY to annoy him a bit & almost in that How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days way… We don’t text again…

I met my new guy friends there by accident (recent ones, I met almost a month ago or so)  and I actually find 1 attractive & flirt with him & he flirts back. Overall have an epic time. I also spend some time with the tourist guy that stepped on my foot on Friday night & well I am getting a lot of attention from a lot of different guys so I can have my pick now. Not in a hurry to choose anyone yet though.

Yesterday I liked my old guy’s insta photo from yesterday just to mindfuck back with him since he pulled that on me last week. In return he likes 6 of my photos from the weekend from the beach bar this morning – interesting…What will happen next? I have no clue!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

7/30 Complete

I have completed 7 days of No Contact Rule even though we were at the same place last weekend.

Difficulty Level 2/10

I would say 1/10 but he looks SO damn good right now! It was super easy to ignore him, I only looked at him a couple of time out of all day long being at the same place. That was Sat & Sunday.

On Monday he liked a bunch on my Instagram photos from the weekend even though I unfollowed him on Insta & unliked some recent photos. – This is a total mindfuck; a friend of mine said he still wants you to think of him… I blocked him on Snapchat & Viber but not on other social media accounts even though we aren’t FB friends or follow each other anymore.

New guy update: We met on Saturday and he wanted to see me that evening, Sunday evening, Monday night, and Tuesday night…. I am one of those people that needs to take it slow if I actually really like someone. Then they go through a set of tests, levels they have to pass, once they do, and I’m sure I like a person then the speed of how things go doesn’t really matter anymore. It sounds like a long process but it actually isn’t, I guess it takes 2-3 dates…

Anyways I cancelled Monday night date, and he still kept on texting me daily and then finally asked me on Tuesday when is it possible to see me again. I said weekend, and he said ok babe, and that was perfect! Since then our texting has been awesome and everything is going great. I think we are exactly on the same page.

Tonight I’m going out to an awesome beach party event and my friends are joining me there and he is coming with his friends as well so it should be a good time. I wanted a group event instead of 1 on 1 because I wanna be sure about him… Saturday by the time we met, I was already a few drinks in…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Weekend Update

Ok so first of all I am doing the 30 Day No Contact Rule for real this time, because I have a new guy in my life! Woop! Woop!

Long story short, we were both at the beach bar & at some point I met a new guy & I’m pretty excited because it’s so rare for me to meet someone I like because I’m so picky… Anyhow me & new guy kissed in front of old guy (the idiot) so that’s awesome, but it really isn’t about him anymore, it’s about me now.

Saturday was pretty awesome at the beach. I saw a lot of friends and met new people and this new guy, his friends like me too so that’s pretty awesome.

Sunday I went back to the beach bar but left early due to heat… Ignored old guy all day, easy!

PS: I have a date with new guy today 🙂 yay!